Susan DeSimone
March 22, 2020
Obituary
Susan was a free spirit, a traveler and adventurer - a real “mover and shaker”. She loved her friends and family with her entire heart and would do anything for them. She was everyone's rock; she made time for everyone in her life, always lending an ear when needed, advice when warranted, and a ride when asked, even if her “lead foot” frightened her passengers. Sue was unrelentingly positive and found joy in helping her friends and family pursue their interests. Her granddaughter Julia DeSimone loves all things Broadway, so she took her on multiple visits to BroadwayCon and to numerous Broadway shows. Last summer, she took her grandson Andrew on a trip to Indianapolis so he could see the world drum corps championships (DCI) and to Nashville so he could see his favorite jazz musician, Herbie Hancock. She also frequently traveled with her extended family to their communal happy place, Disney World. Susan loved the beach and spent every moment she could there. As soon as her son graduated from high school in Bergenfield, she began making plans to move to the Jersey Shore. He left for college on a Friday and she sold the house and left for the Shore the following Monday. Susan spent a lot of time with an amazing group of friends - GNO (Girls Night Out). The group first met as teachers in 1969. They have spent the last 50 years as each other's second families - celebrating and supporting and traveling all of life together. Susans home was beautifully decorated and adorned with bells that she collected over the years as gifts and through her many travels. Throughout her battle with cancer, she remained positive. She never let her diagnosis come between her and the things she loved to do. She continued to travel, including one last trip to Hollywood, Florida with her sister Joanie just a few weeks ago - as a bonus she also got to visit Julia on her college campus. No matter how difficult her battle became, Susan kept her spirits high and enjoyed every moment she got with her family. Susan is survived by many who loved her and will forever carry her in their hearts besides Laurie Jaffe DeSimone, Julia, Andrew and her son, Billy, including sisters Jackie Morrow and Joan Bitecola and brother-in-law Dan Bitecola, nephews Cliff Bitecola and Dan Bitecola, niece Jessica Moore, and GNO - her friends for life. A virtual celebration of life will be scheduled soon, and will be followed by an in-person memorial service to be scheduled at a later date. Other NJ Memorial Service Saturday, June 18th, 2022 11:00 am - 11:45 am Saint Thomas the Apostle Church 60 Byrd Ave, Bloomfield NJ 07003 Memorial Gathering Saturday, June 18th, 2022 12:00 pm - 03:00 pm Halpin - Bitecola Brookdale Funeral Home 1284 Broad St, Bloomfield NJ 07003
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Ann Tomasetti Holms
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It was an honor to know you for all these years my friend. Your spirit will live in on in our hearts.
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Doug
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Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. ~ Doug, Amy, Josh and Sam
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M.J. Johnson
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As a friend of Bill's, I have such fond memories of Mrs. DeSimone (as I knew her) from when I was in middle and high school. She was always so supportive not just of Bill and his many official and unofficial social activities, but of kids like me who weren't blood relatives. She treated me like a member of her family, and I'm very grateful for her generous and inclusive spirit. Love and sincere condolences to family and friends...
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Pat Nelson
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We will miss your smile, your laugh, your courage. I feel blessed to have shared our friendship for so many years. Goodbye, Dear Friend.
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Walter & Jacqueline Gerold
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We would like to send our condolences to Billy and his family. We knew Susan since college. She was a sweet young woman who was easy to like. Cherish all the good memories you have accumulated.
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Pat Salerno
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I keep passing your house when I go out. and hard to believe you will not be sitting there any more reading your book...my beach buddie. pain free now Susan. may you rest in peace.<br>your Meadowbrook neighbor..Pat Salerno